Why You Don’t Look Like You Lift 

Despite years of training, many lifters can become discouraged by their lack of muscle gains. In June 2025, veteran natural fitness influencer Sean Nalewanyj broke down seven culprits that prevent athletes from being able to show off their hard work in the gym and how to course-correct. 

7 Reasons You’re Not Growing 

• Being Too Lean 
• Bulking Inconsistently
• Lack of True Training Intensity
• Over-Focusing on “Showy” Muscles
• Shiny Object Syndrome
• Copying Elite Lifters’ Routines
• Unrealistic Expectations

How to Look Like You Lift 

• Clean Bulk
• Train Close to Failure
• Train All Muscles Equally
• Tailor Your Workouts
• Be Patient and Consistent

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1. Being Too Lean 

Nalewanyj challenged the trendy advice that one can stay shredded year-round and gain muscle. “Don’t think that you can maintain 10% body fat all year and just magically synthesize a significant amount of new muscle out of thin air,” Nalewanyj dispelled.

At a low body fat percentage, the body lacks surplus energy needed for growth. That doesn’t mean recklessly dirty bulking. Instead, aim for a modest caloric surplus — around 200-300 calories above maintenance, yielding one to two pounds of monthly weight gain.

Gradually increase in small increments as needed. Macronutrient ratios and meal consistency are important; creatine can boost progress. (1) Optimal bulking macros, according to literature:

• 45–60% of calories from carbs
• 30–35% of calories from protein
• 15–30% of calories from fat

2. Bulking Inconsistently 

Addressing fears of abs fading from the mirror, Nalewanyj suggests not panicking over social media skewing body fat percentages; 15-20% of body fat is misjudged as overweight, but it’s a realistic range to see real progress. “You must spend time in a softer state to maximize long-term progress,” Nelwanyj affirmed.

Starting and stopping a bulk after a few weeks isn’t enough time for the body to adjust and grow. 

3. Lack of Training Intensity

Studies show intensity is advantageous for muscle growth. (2) Moreover, size is typically a byproduct of increased strength. Using heavy, but not maximal loads, maximizes mechanical tension and may bias the larger fast-twitch muscle fibers.

Training close to failure, or leaving up to two reps in reserve (RIR), is generally considered the gold muscle-building standard. (3) Hypertrophy is dose-dependent, meaning strategically increasing workloads drive more gains. While overtraining is possible, it’s not easy to achieve. (4)(5)(6)(7) The trick is gradual progression. (8)(9)

4. Over-Focusing on Mirror Muscles

Many intermediate and advanced lifters prioritize their favorite muscle groups. Optimizing back, shoulder, triceps, and leg training contributes to what most consider desirable aesthetics. Neglecting those body parts could lead to imbalances that eventually require playing catch-up. 

5. Shiny Object Syndrome

Jumping between influencer routines often leads to “no objective measure to track progress.” It’s hard to gauge adaptation without tracking training variables. Pick exercises that feel good and focus on progressing those lifts. (10)

6. Copying Elite Lifters’ Routines

Nalewanyj warned natural lifters against mimicking the intense regimes of enhanced lifters. “Steroids are not just the icing on the cake. They’re literally like 50% of the cake,” he joked. 

Performance enhancers are a boon to recovery in a way that is not equally available for drug-free trainees. Instead, natural athletes should follow a more personalized program centered around recovery. 

7. Unrealistic Expectations

“Relatively speaking, building muscle doesn’t take that long, but it doesn’t happen overnight,” Nalewanyj concluded. A proper physique transformation takes years of consistency, so be patient and trust the process.

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